Zoraya ter Beek, a 28-year-old Dutch woman suffering from severe mental illnesses, is scheduled next month for euthanasia at the advice of her psychiatrist who believes her condition is incurable.
Ter Beek, living in a small Dutch town near Germany with her boyfriend and their two cats, is physically healthy, but her afflictions with depression, autism, and borderline personality disorder have brought her to this decision, as The Free Press explains.
Formerly aspiring to be a psychiatrist, her mental struggles hindered her from concluding her education and pursuing a profession. Now, ter Beek has expressed her exhaustion of battling her illness and her longing to put an end to her suffering, as she disclosed to the media outlet.
A “reverse tree of life” is depicted on her upper left arm as a tattoo.
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She explained to The Free Press how her “tree of life”, contrarily to its representation of growth and fresh beginnings, signifies a falling, dying tree. “Once the tree died, the bird flew out of it. I don’t see it as my soul leaving, but more as myself being freed from life.”
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The tough decision came after her psychiatrist acknowledged that all possible treatment options for her mental health had been exhausted.
Her psychiatrist had told her, “There’s nothing more we can do for you. It’s never gonna get any better,” triggering her decision, ter Beek recalled, according to The Free Press.
When she declared her choice, ter Beek affirmed that she was clear, “I was always very clear that if it doesn’t get better, I can’t do this anymore.”
As for her end, ter Beek plans to lay on the living room couch, with silence around her, and has requested her boyfriend to accompany her in these last moments.
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“The doctor really takes her time,” she explained to The Free Press. “Then she asks if I am ready. She will once again ask if I am sure, and she will start up the procedure and wish me a good journey. In my case, a nice nap, because I hate it if people say, ‘Safe journey.'”
Afterward, the doctor will administer a sedative followed by a drug causing ter Beek’s heart to stop.
After her demise, the Dutch government and a euthanasia review committee will review ter Beek’s case ensuring that the doctor complied with the “due care criteria” and affirm that her death was legal.
No funeral services will take place post her death. Instead, her ashes, as per her wish, will be scattered by her boyfriend in a site in the forest that they chose together.
“We have not picked an urn yet, but that will be my new house!” Ter Beek said.
She confessed her slight fear of death due to the uncertainty of what lies beyond life. “I’m a little afraid of dying, because it’s the ultimate unknown,” she confessed. “
The Netherlands was the first nation to legalize euthanasia in 2001. Now, a minimum of eight countries, 10 U.S. states, Washington, D.C., and all six Australian states have also legalized it.
Theo Boerin, healthcare ethics professor at Protestant Theological University in the Netherlands, was on a euthanasia review board from 2005 to 2014. Over this period, he noticed an alarming evolution in the perspective towards euthanasia, observing it increasingly being viewed “from death being a last resort to death being a default option.”
Source of the original article: 28-year-old Dutch woman set for euthanasia due to incurable mental illness, as per psychiatrist
A 28-year-old Dutch woman is slated to be euthanized next month because of her struggles with mental illness after her psychiatrist said her condition will never improve.
Zoraya ter Beek lives in a nice house in a small Dutch town near the German border with her boyfriend and two cats. Despite being physically healthy, she plans to end her life due to her depression, autism and borderline personality disorder, according to The Free Press.
She once had ambitions to become a psychiatrist, but she was never able to finish school or start a career due to her own mental illness. But now, she is tired of living and wishes to end her life, she told the outlet.
A tattoo on her upper left arm shows a “tree of life” but “in reverse.”
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“Where the tree of life stands for growth and new beginnings, my tree is the opposite,” ter Beek told The Free Press. “It is losing its leaves, it is dying. And once the tree died, the bird flew out of it. I don’t see it as my soul leaving, but more as myself being freed from life.”
Ter Beek’s decision came after her psychiatrist told her that they had tried everything to help her mental health.
“There’s nothing more we can do for you. It’s never gonna get any better,” she recalled her psychiatrist saying, according to The Free Press.
After declaring her decision, ter Beek told the outlet, “I was always very clear that if it doesn’t get better, I can’t do this anymore.”
As for how she plans to go out, ter Beek said she would be lying on the couch in the living room, with no music playing. But she has asked her boyfriend to be with her until the end.
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“The doctor really takes her time,” she told The Free Press. “It is not that they walk in and say: ‘lay down please!’ Most of the time it is first a cup of coffee to settle the nerves and create a soft atmosphere. Then she asks if I am ready. I will take my place on the couch. She will once again ask if I am sure, and she will start up the procedure and wish me a good journey. Or, in my case, a nice nap, because I hate it if people say, ‘Safe journey.’ I’m not going anywhere.”
Next, the doctor will administer a sedative and then a drug to stop ter Beek’s heart.
Following her death, a euthanasia review committee will evaluate ter Beek’s death to ensure the doctor followed “due care criteria” and the Dutch government will declare that her life was lawfully ended.
No funeral will be held following ter Beek’s death. Instead, her boyfriend will scatter her ashes in an area in the woods they chose together, as she wishes to be cremated.
“I did not want to burden my partner with having to keep the grave tidy,” ter Beek said. “We have not picked an urn yet, but that will be my new house!”
Ter Beek admitted that she is somewhat afraid of dying because she is unsure of what, if anything, happens after death.
“I’m a little afraid of dying, because it’s the ultimate unknown,” she said. “We don’t really know what’s next — or is there nothing? That’s the scary part.”
The Netherlands in 2001 became the first country in the world to legalize euthanasia. Now, at least eight countries have legalized it. Assisted suicide is also legal in 10 U.S. states and Washington, D.C., and all six states in Australia.
Protestant Theological University healthcare ethics professor Theo Boerin served on a euthanasia review board in the Netherlands from 2005 until 2014. During this time, he told The Free Press, he observed Dutch euthanasia “evolve from death being a last resort to death being a default option.”
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